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Therapy Is Not Enough I Need To Light Shit On Fire Glass Candle
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Therapy Is Not Enough. I Need to Light Shit on Fire.
She is doing the work. She is also holding a lighter. Both things can be true at once, and this is the candle for the version of self-care that involves an open flame and nobody talking to her for an hour.
- 12.5 oz glass jar
- Approximately 50–70 hours
- Coconut apricot wax
- Hand-poured in the USA
Made Without the Unnecessary Shit.
Because what you burn in your home matters—even when the label is completely unhinged.
- Non-toxic, phthalate-free fragrance oils
- Paraffin-free coconut-apricot wax
- Lead- and zinc-free cotton wick
- No added dye · Cruelty free
Pick Your Scent
Seven fragrances. Tap a scent to see exactly what it smells like.
Lavender Bergamot · Lavender · Cedar +
Soft, calming, and effortlessly timeless. Fresh herbal notes and soothing lavender create an atmosphere of relaxation, while gentle woods add warmth and depth.
| Top | Citrus, Bergamot |
| Middle | Lavender |
| Base | Camphor, Eucalyptus, Powder, Cedar |
Smells likelavender cut fresh and left to dry. Bergamot and citrus brighten the opening, then it settles into clean herbal calm over powder and cedar.
Fresh Linen + Sea Salt Linen · Eucalyptus · Moss +
Crisp ozone and soft linen blend with cooling eucalyptus and delicate florals. Clean, peaceful, and easy to love in any room.
| Top | Ozone, Linen |
| Middle | Freesia, Sea Salt, Eucalyptus |
| Base | Moss, Powder |
Smells likeclean linen drying in salt air. Crisp ozone and eucalyptus up front, softening into freesia, moss, and powder.
Grapefruit + Mangosteen Citrus · Mango · Cedar +
Juicy citrus meets tropical sweetness for a fragrance that feels lively and full of energy. Vibrant and playful.
| Top | Orange, Orange Peel |
| Middle | Mango, Grapefruit, Peach |
| Base | Cedar, Red Currant |
Smells likegrapefruit cut open on a counter. Sharp citrus first, then ripe mango and peach, drying down on cedar and red currant.
Vanilla Bean — Best Seller Buttercream · Vanilla · Bourbon +
Buttery cake and creamy vanilla swirl into soft sugar and a whisper of warm bourbon. A timeless gourmand that feels like home.
| Top | Buttercream |
| Middle | Cake, Vanilla |
| Base | Sugar, Bourbon |
Smells likea cake just out of the oven. Buttercream and warm sugar first, then soft vanilla, with a trace of bourbon underneath that keeps it from going flat.
Black Cherry Velvet Black Cherry · Vanilla · Cedar +
Juicy black cherry opens sweet and bright before settling into warm vanilla, cedar, and sandalwood. Fruity without smelling like candy.
| Top | Black Cherry, Almond, Raspberry |
| Middle | Vanilla, Vetiver |
| Base | Cedar, Sandalwood |
Smells likedark cherries over warm vanilla. Almond and raspberry brighten the opening before it deepens into cedar and sandalwood.
White Oak & Vanilla Oak · Leather · Whiskey +
Rugged woods with warm depth and subtle sweetness. Inspired by aged whiskey and timeless craftsmanship.
| Top | Palm, Aloe |
| Middle | Oak, Leather, Patchouli |
| Base | Smoke, Leather, Whiskey |
Smells likean old bar at closing time. Oak and leather over patchouli, finishing on smoke and warm whiskey.
Espresso Coffee Bean · Sugar · Vanilla +
Freshly roasted coffee and soft sweetness blend into something cozy, nostalgic, and energizing all at once.
| Top | Coffee Bean |
| Middle | Sugar |
| Base | Coffee, Vanilla |
Smells likeespresso pulled fresh. Dark roasted coffee with sugar and cream, finishing warm and smooth on vanilla.
Buying It as a Gift?
Vanilla Bean: the safest choice for anyone. Warm and sweet, hard to get wrong.
Lavender or Fresh Linen + Sea Salt: for the one who actually uses her candles to wind down.
Grapefruit + Mangosteen: bright and energizing, if calm is not the goal.
Black Cherry Velvet: darker and bolder, for someone who likes a little edge.
White Oak & Vanilla: smoky and warm, for someone who wants less sweet.
The Details
- Wax
- Coconut-apricot blend
- Size
- 12.5 oz clear glass vessel
- Burn Time
- Approximately 50–70 hours
- Wick
- Cotton wick
- Fragrance
- Thoughtfully formulated fragrance oils
- Production
- Poured to order in small batches
- Color
- Natural wax; no added dye
- Made In
- United States
How It's Made +
Each candle is poured to order in small batches using a coconut-apricot wax blend and a cotton wick. Because every candle is made by hand, slight variations are completely normal.
The Gift Nobody Has to Pretend to Like
For the friend in therapy who is still furious, the coworker running on fumes, and anyone whose coping strategy involves lighting something and sitting in silence. She has enough bath sets. Give her something that makes her laugh and makes the whole room smell incredible.
People Are Obsessed
★★★★★
Should Have Gotten One for Myself!
“I grabbed this candle for a friend's bday gift. When it got here and I opened the box, I immediately regretted only getting one LOL. The scent is AMAZING and the candle is so well made. Do yourself a favor and snag a lot of these for yourself and others :)”
Diane · Verified buyer★★★★★
Perfect Gift
“Candle was perfect gift for my friend. The smell is amazing!”
Alex · Verified buyerCandle Care +
Trim the wick to approximately ¼ inch before every burn. On the first burn, allow the wax to melt evenly toward the edges. Keep the wax clear of debris, place the candle on a heat-safe surface, and never leave it burning unattended. Keep away from children, pets, drafts, and flammable objects.
We've Got You
Every candle is poured to order and packed carefully. If it arrives damaged or something isn't right, email customercare@untamedego.com within seven days of delivery. Real humans from a woman-owned small business will help make it right.